Talking Changes

Anything that I gleaned about what he did while he was away from home during the day was from bits and pieces, clues, and just missed conversations between him and my mom as I walked in the room.

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And pushing to think more than once if its right. And checking the work sometimes saying ‘no not quite’. And revealing the dark is just truth without light.

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You’ll Earn / Learn Someday

For me, being authentic meant doing exactly what you wanted, when you wanted- reality be damned. Being authentic also meant being singular in belief and confident despite counterpoint. I was bold. He was calm. When he answered it was measured and clear. As he continued to stare out the window he said. ‘Even though I don’t love banking, I have found the art in it.’

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Our Dad Shoes

Hello folx, Welcome to the Our Dad Shoes Project. In November 2015 my father died of complications due to Multiple Myeloma. Throughout my process of grief and growth, I have had many moments that made me wonder what he would think about the father I have become. On any given day Pete pops up in […]

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